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When Your Goals and Values Are In Conflict
Most people set goals without checking them against their values. When the two pull in opposite directions, everything feels harder than it should. Here’s why.
The Three Filing Cabinets of Life
Are you pulling from the red, blue or black filing cabinet? Discover how the three filing cabinets framework reveals what your stored memories are doing to your marriage and relationships.
The Bear or Man Debate: What Nobody Stopped to Question
A reporter-style video, women being asked a simple hypothetical: Would you rather encounter a man or a bear in the woods? Almost without hesitation, most women answered: the bear. The intent of the question was clear. It was designed to surface something real: that...
Venting About Your Marriage: How to Choose Wise Counsel
Who you vent to about your marriage matters more than you think. Find out why the wrong confidant can do more damage than the original conflict ever did.
Sexy September, Naughty November, Flirty February: What, Why and How
The best time to invest in your relationship is before it needs rescuing. The Sexy September challenge is thirty days of choosing your mate on purpose.
The Love Chapter: 1 Corinthians 13 Marriage Wisdom
The Love Chapter gets read at almost every wedding. But hearing it and living it are two very different things. Here’s what it actually requires from both of you.
Reasons That Egalitarian Marriages Fail: How to Counteract Them.
Equal sounds great, until you see what it actually costs your marriage. Discover why the 50/50 ideal sets couples up to fail and what actually works instead.
The Comparison Trap: How It’s Quietly Destroying Your Marriage
It starts as a harmless thought. Then it becomes a habit. Find out why comparing your partner to others is more damaging than most couples ever realize.
Monogamy Agreements for Couples: How to Make One Before It’s Needed
Most couples never define what fidelity actually means to them, until something goes wrong. Learn why the monogamy agreement conversation could be the most protective thing you do for your marriage.
Processing Your Break-Up: How To Be Set For Success
How you handle a relationship ending determines everything that comes after. Discover the three responses, and the only one that leads somewhere worth going.
How to Have a Difficult Conversation: The TALLO Method
Most difficult conversations fail before they begin. There are five elements in a framework that sets you up for a breakthrough and a successful conversation, instead of a breakdown.
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